主頁/ About (From ‘Book’ to ‘Blog’.)

Like all tales, my story begins with ‘my book*’and continues with ‘my blog.’…

 

讓我重頭開始過… …  

Now, as in today, as in immediately, I persuading myself to put one foot of the other and start a completely new life that matters …

從香港移居到倫敦快十七個年頭了,不禁驚嘆歲月的飛逝,它猶似被人無聲無色地拐走。又是如何在自己不經意之間流失呢?依然令我難於去接受。同時,面對著多個人生中的重大轉變,不得不催使我向「過去」進行大檢閱……

(愛沙班倫 ~ 倫敦 2015)

時不我待 / Time waits for no man
時不我待  Time waits for no man

 

I feel as if my whole life has been nothing but disoriented, faded million pieces...
I feel as if my whole life has been nothing but disoriented, faded million pieces…
Yet the idea of “opening up” my seemingly unattractive, unsettled life ~ somehow gives me some comfort …
Yet the idea of “opening up” my seemingly unattractive, unsettled life ~ somehow gives me some comfort …

 

雖然,我的人生旅程相比於別人,或許是微不足道,更談不上是悲愴和榮辱與共。祗是我深信每個人都是一個故事,而當中亦不乏會有許多使我們重大改變的難忘體驗。那些點點滴滴 “Made us who we are today.” 。

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豈不是條條大路通羅馬嗎? All roads lead to Rome 

 

我以前認為,我的生活領悟、我的失敗教訓,完全與別人無關,更抯不上有任可瓜葛。可是,今日我卻情願去相信,冥冥中生命對每個人都有不同的計劃。我們亦可能會在彼此生命裡的某段、某章交互連接,互相影響 “Which is what life is about.”。

Yep! That's life… 東西南北、縱橫交錯。
Yep! That’s life…  東西南北、縱橫交錯

 

我真誠地希望能够透過自己在英國的一些生活片段 與足跡去跟你分享: 我對人生的閱歷及今天「中年、單身、Childfree/ Childless」的女性身上所面對之挑戰 ~

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The world we live in today, it could be a tough and challenge place for middle aged, single and childfree/childless women.  If you are single over certain age with no children, the pressure is on! However, it comfort to know we are not alone. We are all connected somehow, I tend to believe.

I know a lot of people think that’s a bad thing. But I’ve realised that there’s a better, more constructive way to ‘see it’ as an opportunity which allowed us to take advantage of it. Most importantly, instead of buried myself into a nutshell from mid-life crisis, I like to embrace it and learn to let go of my younger self. Gain new perspectives of life and aiming to prove it can still be “Rock 👠 and💄 Fabulous!”

Through my life in England and a journey of reinventing myself to embarking a new chapter ~ Sharing my thoughts and giving words of hope & encouragement to others and wish my shortcoming stories will bring some ‘reflection’ or perhaps, make some difference to some extent in the life of others.  I sincerely hope so!

(愛沙班倫 ~ 倫敦 2015)

 

Canterbury, Kent, England
Canterbury, Kent, England

 

“Man is a mystery.  One must solve it.  If you spend your entire life trying to puzzle it out, then do not say that you have wasted your time.  I occupy myself with this mystery, because I want to be a man.” – Fyodor Dostoyevsky (Was a Russian novelist and philosopher)

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Thanks for my dearest nephew ~ little J, who drew this brilliant picture!

 

若細心去想深一層 ~ “Perhaps, the imperfect path – it’s THE path!” 。僅需要的乃是移開在其中混淆我們之障礙物。而即使認為現在所立之處不算是「完美之站」,只是以生命大層面上的觀點來看,甚麼是「完美」?

 

[*] 既然只能活一次 Run your own race (第一卷: 上册 A– M) By 愛沙班倫 (倫敦站)