Like all tales, my story begins with ‘my book*’and continues with ‘my blog.’…
Now, as in today, as in immediately, I persuading myself to put one foot of the other and start a completely new life that matters …
(愛沙班倫 ~ 倫敦 2015)
雖然，我的人生旅程相比於別人，或許是微不足道，更談不上是悲愴和榮辱與共。祗是我深信每個人都是一個故事，而當中亦不乏會有許多使我們重大改變的難忘體驗。那些點點滴滴 “Made us who we are today.” 。
豈不是條條大路通羅馬嗎? All roads lead to Rome
我以前認為，我的生活領悟、我的失敗教訓，完全與別人無關，更抯不上有任可瓜葛。可是，今日我卻情願去相信，冥冥中生命對每個人都有不同的計劃。我們亦可能會在彼此生命裡的某段、某章交互連接，互相影響 “Which is what life is about.”。
我真誠地希望能够透過自己在英國的一些生活片段 與足跡去跟你分享: 我對人生的閱歷及今天「中年、單身、Childfree/ Childless」的女性身上所面對之挑戰 ～
The world we live in today, it could be a tough and challenge place for middle aged, single and childfree/childless women. If you are single over certain age with no children, the pressure is on! However, it comfort to know we are not alone. We are all connected somehow, I tend to believe.
I know a lot of people think that’s a bad thing. But I’ve realised that there’s a better, more constructive way to ‘see it’ as an opportunity which allowed us to take advantage of it. Most importantly, instead of buried myself into a nutshell from mid-life crisis, I like to embrace it and learn to let go of my younger self. Gain new perspectives of life and aiming to prove it can still be “Rock 👠 and💄 Fabulous!”
Through my life in England and a journey of reinventing myself to embarking a new chapter ~ Sharing my thoughts and giving words of hope & encouragement to others and wish my shortcoming stories will bring some ‘reflection’ or perhaps, make some difference to some extent in the life of others. I sincerely hope so!
(愛沙班倫 ~ 倫敦 2015)
“Man is a mystery. One must solve it. If you spend your entire life trying to puzzle it out, then do not say that you have wasted your time. I occupy myself with this mystery, because I want to be a man.” – Fyodor Dostoyevsky (Was a Russian novelist and philosopher)
若細心去想深一層 ~ “Perhaps, the imperfect path – it’s THE path!” 。僅需要的乃是移開在其中混淆我們之障礙物。而即使認為現在所立之處不算是「完美之站」，只是以生命大層面上的觀點來看，甚麼是「完美」？
[*] 既然只能活一次 Run your own race (第一卷: 上册 A– M) By 愛沙班倫 (倫敦站)